Happiness…
“The way to health, harmony, and happiness is primarily mental.” ~ Grenville Kleiser
Grenville Kleiser was a prolific writer and instructor at Yale’s Divinity School who focused on inspirational works as well as guides to public speaking. Among his copious amounts of written material is another nugget of wisdom that fits well with the quote above, “Thoughts rule mankind”. The mindset of a person is a powerful and mysterious thing. A person may feel at peace and content in the world or tortured and paralyzed by the very same world. May is Mental Health Month and whether you agree with Mr. Kleiser or not, mental health has an enormous impact in how we deal with daily challenges and our outlook on life. Happiness, in essence, is derived from how healthy our mental health is. Let that sink in for a moment. Every person reading this has experienced extreme joys and sorrows in their life, we have all, every last one of us, experienced uncertainty in how we feel emotionally and how to deal with that uncertainty. It is all normal.
When people talk about mental health, there is a negative stigma that is associated with it. Those who scoff at the field of mental health usually have visions of mad and wild-eyed killers shooting up yet another school in America. Sadly, while this is true, people who have committed acts of atrocity usually have an abundance of mental health issues which contribute to their behavior, society as a whole wants to turn a blind eye to the root cause. The health of a person’s mental wellbeing is a barometer to that person’s ability to function and thrive in our society. We hear about post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, and anxiety in our society today more than we ever have before. We think of military vets or first responders who suffer from long time exposure to high risk jobs…but it could also be about a little boy who has witnessed something traumatic such as his mother being abused by his father or vise versa. Mental health issues can be born out of chemical imbalances in the body or from outside trauma and stressors that over time wear away our resilience and our ability to bounce back to a healthy, mental equilibrium.
We have all suffered at some point or another from mental anguish. All of us have responded differently to those outside stimuli that has reshaped of feelings and how we react to those feelings. There are those who feel that individuals who are in tune with their emotions are too weak to deal with the rigors and realities of real life. They are wrong. We all face the rigors of life differently and within the capacity we each have to can with that event. Some people are more resilient than others just as some people can run faster than others or have higher neural flexibility than others. Some individuals can hide their emotional pain better than others but it doesn’t mean that they still don’t feel that pain or that the emotional pain they are feeling isn’t real.
Mental health issues are very real and very important. We, as a society can no longer afford to ignore the need to discuss mental health wellbeing and how that correlates to a healthy and productive life. If you have questions about your mental health, seek out a professional or start with your family physician to get going in the right direction. Mental Health of America has a toolkit that can help you get going in the right direction… www.mentalhealthamerica.net
As we edge closer to the Memorial Day Holiday, keep in mind that mental health wellbeing is a key component of happiness…and as with anything worthwhile, wholeness and wellbeing of mental health takes honesty and hard work. We spend so much time in making our world look nice on the outside, we also need to make the same effort to look and feel good on the inside too. Please, take care of yourself, and each other…remember, we’re all in this together!
Wm Reid
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Connersville, IN 47331
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